Story: Sex always gets in the way of friendships between men and women. At least, that's what Harry Burns believes. So when Harry meets Sally Albright and a deep friendship blossoms between them, Harry's determined not to let his attraction to Sally destroy it. But when a night of weakness ends in a morning of panic, can the pair avoid succumbing to Harry's fears by remaining friends and admitting they just might be the perfect match for each other?
Story: David O'Neil, a plasterer and mature student Theo have been best mates for fourteen years and are practically inseparable. However, their friendship has become strained as Theo is about to move in with his long-term girlfriend, photographer Hannah. A raging jealousy awakes in David and he starts scheming to break up the loving couple using Hannah's insecurities against them. When the couple eventually separate David is in a quandary about his next move and is forced to confront his long-hidden homosexuality and feelings towards Theo. Eventually, David decides to reveal his sexual orientation and deep love for Theo very publicly by arranging for them both to appear as guests on Judith Adams' talk-show, "forgive and forget", with tragic consequences for their friendship and David's family.
The Best Movies About Falling for Your Best Friend
Few cinematic tropes are as relatable (or as painful) as the "best friend to lover" trope. These films masterfully blend humor, heartache, and hope, making them essential viewing for anyone navigating unrequited feelings. Whether you prefer lighthearted comedies or emotional dramas, this genre has something for every mood.
Feel-Good Rom-Coms to Watch on Repeat
For those who love a happy ending, these movies deliver charm, wit, and chemistry without the heartbreak. Grab some popcorn and prepare to swoon!
10 Things I Hate About You (1999) – A modern Shakespearean twist where Kat falls for the guy who’s always been there, even when she pretends not to care. The slow-burn romance and sharp dialogue make this a classic.
Crazy, Stupid, Love (2011) – A star-studded rom-com that juggles multiple love stories, including a subplot where Ryan Gosling’s character helps Steve Carell’s character win back his wife from an old flame. The banter and twists keep you hooked.
Palm Springs (2020) – A time-loop comedy with a twist: Nyles (Andy Samberg) has been stuck in a day with the same people, including his best friend’s sister, Sarah (Cristin Milioti). The chemistry is electric, and the premise is fresh.
Dramas That Tug at Your Heartstrings
If you’re in the mood for something more profound, these films explore the complexities of unspoken love, sacrifice, and the fear of ruining a friendship. They’re perfect for late-night viewing when you need a good cry (or two).
Moonrise Kingdom (2012) – Wes Anderson’s whimsical style meets a young love story where two misfit friends run away together. The innocence and devotion in their relationship are both heartwarming and heartbreaking.
Blue Valentine (2010) – A raw, nonlinear story about a couple whose love fades over time. While not about best friends initially, the film’s portrayal of how love evolves (or dissolves) hits hard for anyone who’s ever wondered, "What if?"
The Half of It (2020) – A modern retelling of *Cyrano de Bergerac* where a shy teen ghostwrites love letters for her crush to win over his friend. The quiet romance and themes of unrequited love resonate deeply.
TV Shows That Nail the Best Friend Romance
Television has also embraced the "best friend to lover" trope, often with more depth and long-term storytelling. These series keep you invested with evolving relationships, dramatic twists, and plenty of emotional payoffs.
Binge-Worthy Series for Long Nights
From teen dramas to adult comedies, these shows balance humor, romance, and the tension of unspoken feelings—perfect for weekend marathons.
Friends (1994–2004) – The quintessential best-friend romance is Ross and Rachel’s will-they-won’t-they dynamic, but the show teases other friendships-turned-love-stories, like Joey and Rachel’s short-lived fling. The nostalgia and humor are unbeatable.
Sex Education (2019–2023) – While not the main focus, the show explores side characters like Florence and Jackson, whose friendship blossoms into something deeper. The British charm and authentic storytelling make it a standout.
Never Have I Ever (2020–2023) – Mindy Kaling’s coming-of-age series features a sweet subplot where Devi’s best friend, Paxton, starts to see her in a new light. The humor and heart make it a must-watch.
Dramas with Deeper Themes
For those who crave more than just a love story, these shows dive into the psychological and emotional layers of loving someone who’s always been "just a friend."
Fleabag (2016–2019) – Fleabag’s complicated relationship with her sister’s husband, Harry, blurs the line between friendship and something more. The show’s raw honesty and fourth-wall breaks make it unforgettable.
Normal People (2020) – While Connell and Marianne’s story starts as a quiet friendship, their bond deepens in ways neither expected. The Irish countryside setting and intimate performances elevate this modern classic.
You (2018–Present) – Though darker in tone, Joe Goldberg’s fixation on his best friend’s love interest, Beck, explores the fine line between devotion and obsession. A gripping psychological thriller for fans of twisted romance.
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